Samuel Dhinakaran’s Love Story & Advice for Christian Singles | Wait for GOD’s Best! John Giftah

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0:49 Speaker 2: How did you choose to wait for God to send

0:52 Speaker 2: the right person at the right time into your life?

0:54 Speaker 2: And what is the word of advice you would give

0:57 Speaker 2: for us Christian singers.

1:00 Speaker 3: Story time about Sam's personal love life. Yeah, I've mentioned

1:09 Speaker 3: about a girl whom I liked. She was my friend

1:16 Speaker 3: and I spent it, spent a lot of time with

1:18 Speaker 3: her for a couple of months in texting and messaging.

1:23 Speaker 3: That's where the magic happens these days. And so we

1:28 Speaker 3: would talk for a long time as friends. But then

1:33 Speaker 3: when we talk with one person of the office gender

1:36 Speaker 3: for such a long time, you tend to mistake it

1:39 Speaker 3: and you tend to take it as something else. And

1:42 Speaker 3: we would even talk four o'clock up in the morning.

1:46 Speaker 3: First thing, look at the phone for her message rather

1:49 Speaker 3: than looking at the Bible or you know, looking to God.

1:53 Speaker 3: That started priority started changing. And in those couple of months,

1:59 Speaker 3: you know, so much time and you know, my mind,

2:04 Speaker 3: my thoughts, everything, I started spending on her, and I

2:07 Speaker 3: started developing feelings where maybe she is the one kept

2:13 Speaker 3: from God itself, you know, maybe God has kept her.

2:17 Speaker 3: And I started wondering. And before I talked to her

2:22 Speaker 3: about anything of this sort, I asked one day when

2:27 Speaker 3: we were fasting and praying, as in our office entire ministry,

2:33 Speaker 3: I personally fasted and prayed, lot, is she the right person?

2:36 Speaker 3: And if so, give me a sign and give me

2:39 Speaker 3: a peace in my heart, and give me a leading.

2:42 Speaker 4: But during that prayer, God struck my heart and said, no,

2:48 Speaker 4: that's it.

2:49 Speaker 3: You know what that would He pierced my heart and said, no,

2:54 Speaker 3: that's all, nothing else, no other extravert. And I felt

2:57 Speaker 3: it so strong that it really, I would say, transform

3:02 Speaker 3: my heart from such feelings.

3:03 Speaker 4: Also that because love.

3:07 Speaker 3: Is a powerful aroma and it's a powerful essence which

3:11 Speaker 3: you intoxicates you, and you feel so loud, and you

3:18 Speaker 3: feel so you're in a different place. Your heart is full.

3:21 Speaker 3: No other feeling can overcome it or change it. It's

3:25 Speaker 3: hard to get out of it. But this word, because

3:28 Speaker 3: I asked him permission more than myself going forward with this,

3:34 Speaker 3: he struck me and he changed me, and he gave

3:36 Speaker 3: me the strength to tell her I had such feelings.

3:40 Speaker 3: So I openly told her, and no more, because I

3:44 Speaker 3: prayed and God said, don't go ahead with this.

3:47 Speaker 4: I didn't even give her a chance to say anything

3:49 Speaker 4: on it.

3:51 Speaker 3: And I walked away and never spoke to her for

3:55 Speaker 3: I mean till now. So I walked away from that relation.

4:00 Speaker 3: And gave me the strength, and he showed me the direction.

4:04 Speaker 3: And today the price is a wife who really carries

4:09 Speaker 3: what I lack in myself.

4:12 Speaker 4: She's the strength to.

4:13 Speaker 3: It, the perfect match that God has given so many

4:16 Speaker 3: areas I lack. She is strong and so many areas

4:19 Speaker 3: She's able to handle me and still counsel me and

4:24 Speaker 3: take care of me.

4:26 Speaker 4: And today it's not easy to step in.

4:29 Speaker 3: The shoes of a family who is serving the lot

4:34 Speaker 3: night and day and moving around ministry.

4:37 Speaker 4: But she stepped into that culture and she's owning it today.

4:41 Speaker 3: And she has a people group for herself who really

4:45 Speaker 3: follow what the lot is doing through her medically, in

4:49 Speaker 3: preaching and through social media. So I praise God for

4:54 Speaker 3: giving such a wife of power today. Maybe if I

4:58 Speaker 3: followed that girl, I don't know how my life would

5:01 Speaker 3: have ended up. What I thought was good could have

5:04 Speaker 3: come crashing down totally.

5:06 Speaker 4: And so today God has given me a perfect person.

5:11 Speaker 2: That's so good. That's a word of encouragement for you

5:17 Speaker 2: know that God is going to bring the right person.

5:19 Speaker 2: So you know by at the same time being a

5:21 Speaker 2: place where even if I want this way God, this

5:25 Speaker 2: is what I really want God. But you know it's

5:27 Speaker 2: a place if you're telling me no, I'm going to

5:30 Speaker 2: say to it as a no. So you need to

5:32 Speaker 2: get to that place of like spirit ually need whatever

5:36 Speaker 2: way it is.

5:38 Speaker 3: Some young people who have come to me saying, now,

5:41 Speaker 3: please pray, I know this girl so much. Please ask

5:44 Speaker 3: God to give her to me, and please ask my

5:47 Speaker 3: I got to change my parents.

5:49 Speaker 4: They should all like her and they should say yes.

5:51 Speaker 3: Everybody, everything has to change for her and for that person.

5:56 Speaker 3: So yeah, being in love can really hook you on.

6:02 Speaker 2: That's just come to that place. You just surrender to

6:05 Speaker 2: how the Lord is leading. I mean, if it is

6:08 Speaker 2: the Lord's will, he will. He can part the red seas,

6:11 Speaker 2: you know, like the other day I was shedding about

6:13 Speaker 2: one of my desires and then the only thing you

6:16 Speaker 2: know that separates me from you know, like such a

6:19 Speaker 2: thing that happens is water. Is So if God can,

6:23 Speaker 2: you know, part the red sea, He can connect the dots.

6:25 Speaker 2: He can do anything. But don't force him to do it.

6:28 Speaker 2: Yah way, say God, let it be your way. So

6:32 Speaker 2: it's always supposed to be his way.

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